When I agreed to write a post on what makes a
strong Young Adult female lead, I had every intention of pontificating on the
traits I thought made her that way. Turns out, I had an even better idea, with
the results not so far from what I would have written myself.
I teach high school students and figured, who
better to tell us about strength? I asked boys and girls and got some pretty
amazing answers.
“She
can’t be all wimpy, like Bella. She has to fight for herself. And she must have
humor. I read pretty depressing books but I like when the lead finds things to
laugh at.” Imani - Age 16
“She’s
got to be empathetic and not all “I can do this all by myself.” She has to have
friends that she’s willing to lean on.” Zachary
(boy)- Age 15
“Definitely
not Bella, she was sort of “dependent”. Strength is definitely when they’re
more independent, when they can make decisions on their own, when they’re
courageous and can speak for themselves. I really like Witsy in the WITCH &
WIZARDS series.” Alexis - Age 15
“Someone
who is daring and adventurous, who keeps the reader guessing the whole time,
like Katniss.” Cassie - Age 17
“A girl
who’s not stereotypical, that goes against social norms, extremely smart, can
dress up and be pretty but chooses not to.” Sam (boy) - Age 19
“A girl
who sticks up for others and cares about the insides of people not the
outsides.” Jacob
(boy) - Age 17
“A girl
that doesn’t care what other people thinks, and just “be’s” herself.” - Diane - Age 18
“A girl
that knows she has to do the right thing even when she doesn’t want to. That
she doesn’t always think of herself and tries to make the best out of
situations.” - Christian - Age 16
As a writer, it was great to hear what these
students had to say, because I agree with all of them. When I was thinking of
my own ideas, I thought of brave Katniss who put her own fear aside to stand up
for her sister and her district. I thought of Fire, who though nurturing and
maternal, made a conscious decision never to bear a child for her own selfish reasons.
Or Marisa, in What Can(‘t) Wait, who has to decide between what is best for
herself and what is best for her family, but does it with empathy and love. To
me, that’s the heart of a strong female lead. Honesty. To others. But mostly to
self. Strong girls embrace their wholeness, their flaws and their perfection,
and love themselves for all of it.
Jaye Robin Brown - www.jayerobinbrown.com





What fantastic comments from the students! Brilliant.
ReplyDeleteI love that a boy saw a strong female as one who must be willing to lean on her friends. All good stuff!
ReplyDeleteI feel a need for hunger, too. A hunger to know more...about herself, about how people work, about how to survive.
I'm with your students...no "please save me" or "I just can't choose" types need apply here.
Excellent idea, Jaye. Thanks for sharing these teen perspectives. ^_^
ReplyDeleteSuch great feedback, Jaye. Smart idea to tap into your resource pool! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks y'all. And thanks Marilyn for hosting me. It's funny, I started asking them as "research" and soon after I realized I had my blog post. I particularly loved the three boys answers which go to prove, beauty isn't everything to the guy.
ReplyDeleteAWESOME perspectives! What a great idea to ask the kids, Jaye.
ReplyDeleteI particularly liked Sam's answer on what a strong female should be like. And your wrap up. Dang, that hit the right spot for me today. Thank you!
And all that "not like Bella" made me giggle. Pfft, I always wanted to be like Jasper anyway.